bewuzzled (original poster member #31584) posted at 3:11 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2025
Hi waywards. I am a returning member, I've been gone for a long time but I thought of this site and the people I talked to, who helped me so much when I was going through Dday and then an attempted R, which ultimately did not work. I am now divorced as of 10/24.
I learned so much, I've tried to help others in my life with things I learned here, and I would consider myself a reformed wayward. I don't live a lifestyle I ever thought I would, these days, but I'm happy.
there were days I didn't think I'd survive the turmoil I caused, but I did, and I'm thriving now... took alot of time and effort though.
things can and do get better, sometimes better than you could ever have imagined.
I hope all of you I knew before, and those who came after me,are doing well and that you're happy!
fWW/BW (me) 42 now MH
BH/WH MH (him) 42 (StuckOnTheFence)
2 kids (25 & 23)
D day #1 1/20/11
D day #2 1/28/11
I am seeking, I am striving
I am in it with all my heart.
NaiveWayward ( new member #86196) posted at 9:59 AM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2025
Interested to hear your story, is it posted anywhere?
WoodThrush2 ( member #85057) posted at 6:12 PM on Wednesday, August 6th, 2025
I scanned your archived posts ....what a heartbreaking story. I know you are well from what you say....but it just hurts me. I so love marriage. I believe you two had real love. You know ....God can restore it again. I am a sucker....I guess I would so love to hear you write back some day and say you remarried and have a happy ever after.....馃槩
You may have zero interest in that...selfish of me.
Regardless.....seek God's will for you. His path is the right path. 馃檹
[This message edited by WoodThrush2 at 6:12 PM, Wednesday, August 6th]
